Surround Yourself With Good Energy

Fear, rejection, anxiety and depression can send you in a downward spiral if certain measures aren’t taken to prepare yourself for life’s lessons. Surrounding yourself with good energy may be a challenge, but it isn’t impossible to achieve and once you’ve mastered this strategy, especially for those single guys who want to soar above the conflict, start meeting quality men and eventually attain that solid healthy relationship, you will experience phenomenal support like no other.

Energy Drainers.

Have there been times when you feel drained after a conversation with a friend, co-worker or even family? You feel down after listening to them complain about the weather, their boss or the economy? Is there someone in particular in your life, that, no matter what you do, or how open you are AND loving, you just can’t seem to work around their draining energy? They probably mean well, but your HOT BUTTONS get pushed and no matter what, you just can’t seem to work past it.

Law of Attraction experts, Jerry and Esther Hicks say, “When you focus upon lack in an attitude of complaining, you establish a vibrational point of attraction that then gives you access only to more thoughts of complaint. Your deliberate effort to tell a new story will establish a new pattern of thought, providing you with a new point of attraction from your present, about your past, and into your future. The simple effort of looking for positive aspects will set a new vibrational tone and the Law of Attraction will begin the immediate attraction of thoughts, people, circumstances, and things that are pleasing to you.”

Negative energy (or positive) is contagious.You can catch a negative or positive attitude from the people around you. Negative behavior is commonly displayed by people who have given up on their own dreams and aspirations. There are people who have positive attitudes, but fizzles out when something doesn’t go their way.

Did you know it’s an Inside Job?

Dreaming BIG is a huge part of the your Relationship Ready journey and if you are not surrounding yourself with people who support, encourage and nurture you, you are keeping yourself in the cycle of repeating the same events over and over. It’s about optimizing your environment (people, places and things) and let go of old ways that do not work for you anymore.

No matter what, we have to deal with our co-workers and family, but we have a choice of who we decide to hang around. Ask you yourself how you feel after spending time with someone, do you leave pumped, inspired or calm? After meeting up with a particular friend, do you leave feeling anxious, listless or fatigued? These are two extremes, but what I think you need is a way to measure how much good energy you are bringing into your life.

Well, if it’s the second, it’s time to develop friendships with people who support your dreams and goals. These people provide unconditional support, motivate you to keep keepin’ on and provide a comfortable space for you to be yourself.

Your Relationship Ready Assignment

Start to get curious about how you are being around certain people. If you are noticing buttons being pushed, energy being drained and frustration occur, begin to think about what you need to do take of yourself. This doesn’t mean shutting energy drainers out of your life, or condemning them and even confronting them; it’s a process, it takes time and means you eventually need to make some important decisions.