Sunday, September 5, 2010

Are you missing out on meeting GREAT men?

September 30, 2009 by coachgreg38  
Filed under Dating Tips

Doing anything fun tonight?  Any GREAT dates planned for the weekend?

Are you spending most nights doing other things besides going out on dates? That’s totally cool…it’s great to different things. In fact, I highly suggest you do get out there in the world and stretch a bit. Take more risks, get involved – go back to school!!  BUT if you’re wondering why you’re still single, complaining that you can’t  find a boyfriend AND would like to kick up your  love life a bunch of notches, you seriously need to put yourself out there more.

About a month ago I was given the amazing opportunity, by the UNIVERSE, to date this really amazing guy.

Not only is he funny, sweet, and emotionally available, he’s written a book and it’s in the process of being published. Not only that he’s grounded and responsible.  Hey, guys, that’s what happens when you bust through mind obstacles when it comes to meeting FANTASTIC men and you can only do that by DOING IT!

And yes, I’m single and I help single gay guys. Everything I talk or write about – I live 100% – everyday. So, I guess you can say I WALK my TALK. I’m not trying toot my own horn here. I just want to show you that it is so possible to meet men who are emotionally available and who are ready to WALK with you.

My point is, if you’re not seizing opportunities to approach and speak with guys you THINK might be out of your league, you’re probably missing out on some very special dating opportunities.

Not only that, you’re missing out on showing the world who you are by hiding who you are.

Maybe you’re not getting out there because you think:

True or False?


1. There are NO quality guys or if there are, they’re all taken.
(FALSE! They’re everywhere!)
2. He’s way out of my league so why even bother. (FALSE! Your BRAIN is convincing you that you are not good enough and you are!)
3. Your life is not together or you’re just not ready to date. (TRUE! Do what it takes to get your shit together, get grounded and start meeting guys!)
4. You’ve had your fair share of dead-end dates and bad relationships. (TRUE! I know this too well. Ya just want to give up. Don’t. There is a reason why you keep attracting this into your life. It’s time to figure it out.)
5. You’re just TOO busy! (TRUE! So, don’t date! Hey, if you are too busy to date or meet guys either stop trying or do something about it. We’re all busy people in today’s world. Start creating space in your schedule to date.)

Ok, guys! DO IT! Get out there and do something you never would usually do, within reason of course, and take risks.

That is the only way you are going to stretch and grow.

Until next time…

Your friend,

Greg Halpen

http://www.TheGayGuysLoveCoach.com

Comments

One Response to “Are you missing out on meeting GREAT men?”
  1. Hi Greg,

    Oh, I couldn’t agree with you more. I love your website and your approach to dating, connecting, sex, and relationships for gay guys. I have recommended your site and ezine to a number of my gay male friends both here in The States and in The EU. Indeed, straight and gays want, desire, and crave to be loved and great relationships. And certainly you deserve it!

    I’m so glad that your advice comes from “the trenches” and that you are right there alongside single gay guyz, not patronizing at all. Just about 5 miles ahead of them in relationship skill set, communication, and self love first.

    I’m looking forward to our interview!

    Happy Dating and Relationships,

    Happy Dating and Relationships,

    April Braswell
    Single Baby Boomer Dating Success Expert

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