A Way to a Man’s Heart is Through Yours

Let’s say you happen to meet a really great guy. He’s cute, charming and incredibly sexy. You connected right off the bat and you both agree you would like to go on more dates. Are you ready to open up your heart to him? Are you ready to show up with open arms and without [...]

Break out of your shy gay guy shell

Have you ever found yourself at a party or event and noticing a cute guy across the room? He smiled a certain way that sends you over the top. Makes you blush. ; ) Then when you think about approaching him your monkey mind does everything in its power to convince you to hold back [...]

5 Clues to Why You Are Settling When it Comes to Love

I recently spoke with a guy who claims that finding love is too hard, and with a *sigh*, he said, “I’ll have to resort to escorts.” Now, he was joking about the escort, but still….that is an example of what some gay men are experiencing when it comes to falling in love – and I [...]

Are You Following Through With Your Promises?

Guys, I’m sure by now you’ve reached the end of your limit with all of the pressure to follow through with making 2010 a better year for your life. Making your life less about pain and suffering and more about contributing and living in joy, especially when it comes to love. The problem is, the higher the [...]

Are you a Martyr or a Muse?

We are a society of complainers, no? We hem and haw at the weather, gripe about work, gossip about friends, family, boyfriends, as if, we’ve taken on the role of martyr. We fuss that our life isn’t where we want it to be – it becomes a TRAGEDY; the very fabric of who we “think” [...]

The Art of Dating the ZEN Way

Is The Big Apple Taking a BITE out of Your Love Life, Chewing it up and Spitting YOU Out? Why is it, that, in such an enormous city where culture and expression thrive, love and quality men are hard to find? At least that’s what hundreds of gay men who live there are telling me. [...]

Are you missing out on meeting GREAT men?

Doing anything fun tonight?  Any GREAT dates planned for the weekend? Are you spending most nights doing other things besides going out on dates? That’s totally cool…it’s great to different things. In fact, I highly suggest you do get out there in the world and stretch a bit. Take more risks, get involved – go [...]

7 Helpful Reasons Why Your Confidence Level is Low When Approaching Amazing Men

What are you willing to do to ensure that your love life takes the front seat? Are you finally ready to acknowledge that part of you, deep down inside, desires a loving, meaningful relationship? After all, you do have so much to offer, right? To get you started, I’ve compiled a list of 7 reasons why I think dating is hard for you and how you can turn it around.

Surround Yourself With Good Energy

Fear, rejection, anxiety and depression can send you in a downward spiral if certain measures aren’t taken to prepare yourself for life’s lessons. Surrounding yourself with good energy may be a challenge, but it isn’t impossible to achieve and once you’ve mastered this strategy, especially for those single guys who want to soar above the [...]

Are You Double Dipping

I remember a little while back someone emailing me wanting some advice on how to tell when someone your dating is seeing other guys and having sex with them too. Hey, I know the drill….you’re starting to feel good about him, your connecting in amazing ways, you don’t use your teeth when you’re giving you [...]

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