A Way to a Man’s Heart is Through Yours

Let’s say you happen to meet a really great guy. He’s cute, charming and incredibly sexy. You connected right off the bat and you both agree you would like to go on more dates. Are you ready to open up your heart to him? Are you ready to show up with open arms and without [...]

Break out of your shy gay guy shell

Have you ever found yourself at a party or event and noticing a cute guy across the room? He smiled a certain way that sends you over the top. Makes you blush. ; ) Then when you think about approaching him your monkey mind does everything in its power to convince you to hold back [...]

2010: The Year of Profound Visibility

So, we’re in week two of 2010 and it just dawned on me. No, it was actually like a smack in the heart with a cosmic 2×4. BAM! I needed to pump up my life, my coaching and my business in a uniquely profound way. I mean, my life is pretty darn amazing, I have [...]

5 Clues to Why You Are Settling When it Comes to Love

I recently spoke with a guy who claims that finding love is too hard, and with a *sigh*, he said, “I’ll have to resort to escorts.” Now, he was joking about the escort, but still….that is an example of what some gay men are experiencing when it comes to falling in love – and I [...]

How’s Your Integrity When it Comes to Good Love?

I have a feeling that you’re one of the most loving and giving guys someone could ever meet. You have so much to offer a relationship, but on the other hand you’re having trouble grasping love; not just grasping it, but EMBRACING it. Perhaps, being a single gay man comes with a lot of stress [...]

Are You Following Through With Your Promises?

Guys, I’m sure by now you’ve reached the end of your limit with all of the pressure to follow through with making 2010 a better year for your life. Making your life less about pain and suffering and more about contributing and living in joy, especially when it comes to love. The problem is, the higher the [...]

What is your Hectic life revealing to you?

Yesterday, I spent the whole day resting on my comfortable couch, eating delicious Mexican food, designing workshops and setting things in motion for my upcoming Single Gay Guy’s Bootcamp. I jumped on my computer and wrote an article, answered emails and then sweat my butt off in my ZUMBA class – there’s a theme here. [...]

Are you a Martyr or a Muse?

We are a society of complainers, no? We hem and haw at the weather, gripe about work, gossip about friends, family, boyfriends, as if, we’ve taken on the role of martyr. We fuss that our life isn’t where we want it to be – it becomes a TRAGEDY; the very fabric of who we “think” [...]

The Art of Dating the ZEN Way

Is The Big Apple Taking a BITE out of Your Love Life, Chewing it up and Spitting YOU Out? Why is it, that, in such an enormous city where culture and expression thrive, love and quality men are hard to find? At least that’s what hundreds of gay men who live there are telling me. [...]

Evolution of a gay guy

Episode 1 The Introduction of Adam My love–hate relationship with New York…and myself…and how I’m breaking the pattern. Ah, New York. I love that city. And hate it. Love–hate: that sums it up. Right now I’m upstate, to where historically I’ve retreated from the fear and shame that rises in me whenever I’ve lived in [...]

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