Thursday, July 29, 2010


A Unique Step-by-Step Approach on

How to Live Practically Free From Bad

Dating, How to Build More Confidence, and

How to Move Past Your Own Dating

Limitations So You Can Create a Heartful Love Life.



When you work with Greg, here are some of the results you’ll see:

A heart-based approach to dating. We start with what has been feeling pain and start healing; your heart. You will learn what it REALLY takes to stop settling when meeting guys, what it takes to increase your confidence level and the dating skills that will take you from frustrated and lost to knowing exactly what it is you want in a guy and relationship.


It’s an inside job. You need to clarify your ‘Pain Reason’
– that is a statement as to WHY you wont settle anymore and more importantly, we’ll create a personal promise note that will help keep you accountable for being consistent with who you are meant to be – this increases your Boyfriend Material Factor by a 100%.


Realistic relationship requirements.
Requirements are non-negotiable needs or deal-breakers. You will get clear on your requirements, learn how to make them stick, and learn how to assert yourself more when your needs are not being met.


Define your Life’s Purpose.
For some profound reason, we are meant to do something really important in this world and somewhere along the road, you’ve taken a unfamiliar detour and can’t find your way back. It starts with developing a relationship with your one TRUE love– YOU, then attracting Mr. Wonderful and a healthy relationship will naturally follow.

Build Unstoppable Confidence. You already have the first building block. Your heart. That’s where true confidence lives. It’s just a matter of exploring that space and adding to it. Through my laser heart-based coaching and step-by-step learning, I will help you get in touch with the source!


Develop New and Effective Strategies to Move Past Painful Dating Obstacles.
You will learn and acquire the skills that will guide you through dating and keep you grounded when things go off balance. Like, asserting boundaries, approaching and conversing with guys and going on great dates. You will also learn how to prep for a first date, recognizing early on when it’s not a good fit, and learn how to say “good-bye.”


Imagine Going Through Life Being the Chooser
…of who you date. With your new found powerful confidence, you’ll walk through life at the top of your game, ready to date to win; choose who you want to date, choose your career, and choose just about anything you set your intention on.

Communicate as a Contributor. Approaching life from the perspective of the great giver, you start to understand that in this vast world, we are really all connected. You’ll develop powerful communication skills, learn how to communicate effectively, resolve conflict, and approach life feeling like you are contributing greatly.


A Strong Foundation for Your New Life.
Ultimately, we can say it’s all about meeting your soul-mate, but the bottom line is, it’s ALL about healing our heart and getting to the core of who YOU are. The best comparison I can make is with an construction developer;  even before the first beam is laid, a strong cement foundation is set in place. Why would that be different from developing a dating plan.  Think of this as creating blue-prints for your life design.

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His Values

Show up, be juiced and be curious. Nothing wrong with a little hard work. Especially when it comes to the success of your happiness.  Work means that we dive into the mud and get a little dirty.

Take Action. Only you can make it happen. Life doesn’t wait for you. First, you create your dreams. Then you make your dreams a reality by taking action. It’s only by action and implementation can anything change. You never know until you try, right?

The simple truth. Honesty is the most important value. There is nothing you can say that will make me judge, or turn away from you. That’s because what you say is true for you, and I do not take it personally. Your life becomes very simple when you are honest to yourself.

The extra mile. People always appreciate it when you go out of your way to do something. When it comes to our work together, I will go the extra mile for you.

You gotta have heart. Everything and anything I do in life, starts with my heart and inner purpose. From there can we create the life we so desire.


Stepping out of the zone, and that is your comfort zone.
The only way we can grow and stretch, is by being courageous, taking risks and stepping outside of where you feel safe. I create a safe environment that will enable you to feel safe and trust. I dare you to do something extra every day, something outside of your comfort zone and see how far you travel.

Make it FUN! That’s what I am all about. Sure, we will get deep, but essentially, FUN and UNIQUE are the core values of our work together.

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His Approach

Focusing on the results the client wants – I work from the inside out. I always start out the session asking THREE questions my clients have been trying to answer all of their adult lives. Most importantly, you have me as a relationship expert and mentor. What that means is, I am very focused on anything and everything that works for you and because my focus is very laser, what you get from me is no non-sense, pin-pointed heart-based expertise.

Letting you know that every call won’t be earth-shattering. Breakthroughs happen when you’re not expecting them and the truth is, real results take real time.  I will always encourage you to take your time.

The Passion Factor. Always making sure that the you are working on something that you are 100% passionate about. It makes sense to focus on things that get you excited. Start weeding out the parts in your life that are draining you and focus on the things that make you jump out of bed in the morning,  excited to start your day.

Helping you create a life and relationship plan. Having a plan is like your internal compass, when ever you get stuck or hit a wall, you’ll be re-directed and your inner compass will keep you on track.

We will address limiting beliefs and fears. Belief systems are the beliefs that either keep us stuck and sinking in our own personal quicksand or keep us moving forward towards success. Awareness of these belief, assessing if they’re helpful or not and letting go of the destructive ones,  will pull you from the muck.

Tracking and measuring progress along the way. When working on kicking up your dating game, it’s very important to know where you are at any given time. We will track your progress by implementing mile-stones and point systems in our work together.

Celebrating incremental progress along the way. I’m all about celebration! At certain milestones we’ll acknowledge the progress you’ve made and ask how you would like to celebrate.

Maybe you’re not ready to dive into some rich and life-changing work. That’s ok – BABY steps! Check out my free resources and take full advantage of the compelling stuff I am offering.

You can grab the FREE stuff here: www.TheGayGuysLoveCoach.com