Tuesday, September 7, 2010


Single gay men:

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You can have an incredible love life.

Are you a single gay man who finds it really hard to date?

If you’re longing for – and missing – a truly healthy love relationship in your life, it can be heartbreaking.

Gosh, you might even feel as if this lack is actually holding you back from contributing as much as you’d like to in the world.

Maybe you

Find it incredibly hard to approach men and start up a conversation…

…Or you’re always struggling with the “I wonder if he’s single?” question…

…feel shot down and rejected…

…Maybe you find it really hard to open up and share your feelings…

…are fed up with the same on-line dating sites where guys only want hook-ups.

So, what do you do?

Give up?

Throw in the towel?

No, that’s not YOU! You see, men with long-term partners know how much support they get in starting a business, or tackling grad school, or just facing the world and finding their dream.

So, how do you get to your dream when you are constantly searching for Mr. Right?

I KNOW – big questions, huh?

The truth is you can go on all the dates you want and join all the dating sites, but if your heart is swimming in the same second guesses, self-doubts and low self-worth, you will find the same results.

Working with Greg has been an incredible experience for me. I signed up thinking our work would lead me to meeting the love of my life and in fact it did, I met and fell in love with a truly amazing man… me. Greg has taught me an invaluable lesson; until we love ourselves we cannot hope to find that love in another. I am in the process of doing all that I envision doing with the love of my life, alone… and really loving it. I get it now, being single is indeed an opportunity, it’s a time of preparation, anticipation and excitement of the possibility that exists if we allow ourselves to re frame our concept of being “alone”. I know my guy is out there, perhaps doing similar work. I trust we will meet and I know I will have the clarity and vision to recognize him and the knowledge and skills to create a powerful partnership.
–John Gorsuch, http://www.Gorsuch.com

The first step towards a powerful partnership starts with your inner game, and with each step you will start to recognize the value in loving yourself wholly and fully first.

Working with Greg, you will:

1. Get in touch with your deeper self and let go of pain; believe me. I’ve been there. There was a time in my life when my pain was so intense that the idea to end it all sounded more and more acceptable.

2. Start approaching your love life with more heart and less head; More times than we can count, we let our brains take over instead of truly listening to your instincts when it comes to knowing if someone is right for you or not.

3. You will start to see what a healthy relationship can teach you about  your full potential as a gay human in this world.

4. Make a Connection to your heart through your dating efforts so that meeting men can be enjoyable, spiritual and less of a job. You know, there is some truth to what they say, that your true love will come along when you least expect it, but people forget that there is some effort that is involved too.

5. Throw dating away, it doesn’t work. The old dating paradigm doesn’t work for gay men. It’s a fact. In a society where gay people are still trying to make their way, dating doesn’t have the same meaning that straight dating does.

Hi, I’m Greg Halpen, Dating and lifestyle expert. I promise through my programs and services you will start to release that struggle in your heart and get closer to not only your Mr. Wonderful.  If you are not quite ready to take the plunge with me to completely turn your love life around, start with one or all three of these choices.

1) Sign up for my Heart Connector ezine. Each week I will send you deep to the heart dating tools, tips and _____ that will teach you a more practical approach to meeting men, not the out dated ones you’ve been using.

2. Take the 14 day (       ) challenge. Each day for two weeks I will send you I will send………

3.Get a copy of my eBook, The Gay Guy’s Guide to the Art of Dating: A practical approach for gay men who want a great love life and need the confidence to create it.

Can I help you round out the rough spots in your love life? Click here to find out.