Dating INtegrity Bootcamp
Let’s say you happen to meet a really great guy. He’s cute, charming and incredibly sexy. You connected right off the bat and you both agree you would like to go on more dates.
Are you ready to open up your heart to him?
Are you ready to show up with open arms and without the games?
Are you ready to accept fear and not let it run you down like a stampede of wild horses?
You wouldn’t believe how often I hear men say, “I like to be pursued” and then they wonder why the hell they’re still single. Shit, it’s as if they were the only one involved in this exploration. For me personally, I run for the hills. This tactic only gives me hints of what the relationship is going to be like.
Are you ready to show up, and wear your heart on your sleeve?
My belief is, as soon as there is a hint of a game, it almost never works out. That’s not to say that there isn’t some kind of playing happening.
Dating should be playful.
Almost like a dance.
The dance between two energetically matched men, testing the waters and taking the time to build trust and open hearts.
Your heart is miles away from your efforts.
Ok, you try so hard to make connections with guys. I know you do. Online dating, bars and maybe even getting numbers when you are out and about. You think you put your awesome heart into it and then push blame when it gets squashed. “There are no good men out there!” “All the good ones are taken!” “He never returned my calls!”
If you can simply put more heart into your man searches, the kind of heart that means:
You’re ok with rejection,
You understand it takes time and,
you embrace that being single is a great place to be,
…you will hit upon the hottest love you’ve EVER experienced
When your Monkey Mind takes over,
give him a Banana.
That’s when your crazy thoughts completely take over and sabotage every effort you make to meet men. Have you ever had the opportunity to meet a new guy…but at the last minute you backed out?
Or maybe you we’re at a social event and noticed a really cute guy…but your thinking does everything in its power to persuade you to stay back and not approach him.
Or maybe you’ve tried changing, but the changes don’t stick.
Guys, I’ve been in your shoes. Actually, I stuttered and had cold sweats every time someone approached me and I wouldn’t even think of starting a conversation with an attractive guy.
It’s time for a shift.
When You Create Positive Changes in Your Life,
Other Guys Who Want the Same Can Sense It.
Believe me guys, when you transform your own life, in positive ways, I mean HUGE shifts, it creates a ripple effect. Just like when you toss a stone into the water and the water’s waves travel outward. The same goes for the changes you make in your life – your ripples travel outward and other people can sense it.
With this kind of transformational work you need to ask yourself three questions:
Who am I? I’m sure you hear it all the time: “The first person you need to have an amazing relationship is with yourself.” Well, I can’t tell you how true that is. It’s about getting to the bottom line of your passions, your values and what’s making you settle.
What do I want in a guy, boyfriend or relationship?
Can you define what your GUY’S values should be? Do you share the same values and interests? Do your goals and dreams support each others? What happens when a value is compromised? Do you settle? It’s not about finding a cookie cutter match…it’s about being a match energetically.
How do I get there? First, step on the breaks and slow down. What’s the rush, man? Getting there is half the excitement, but first you need to clarify some core obstacles that have been getting in your way of meeting incredible men, going on amazing dates and keeping his interest growing.
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Introducing…
The Dating INtegrity Bootcamp for
Single Gay Men and New Schedules
Four 90 minute classes in 4 weeks
(Plus a Private one-to-one)
10 Spots left!
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Schedules
Next bootcamp starts: March 6th, 2010
Dates: Saturdays, March 6th, 13th, 20th, 27th rd, April 3rd
Bonus Q&A Date: April 10th
Time: 1pm ET-2:30pm ET
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April/May Sessions:
Dates: Saturdays, April 17th, 24th, May 1st, 8th
Bonus Q&A Date: May 15th
Time: 1pm ET-2:30pm ET
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May/June Session
Dates: Saturdays, May 29th, June 5th, 12th, 19th
Bonus Q&A Date: June 26th
Time: 1pm ET-2:30pm ET
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July/August Session
Dates: Saturdays, July 10th, June 17th, 24th, 31st
Bonus Q&A Date: August 7th
Time: 1pm ET-2:30pm ET
What Kind of Guys Participate
In The Single Gay Guy’s Dating INtegrity Bootcamp?
The men who participate in my coaching groups are singe gay men who are are doing great in their careers or beseness life, but need some extra work and support in the love department.
They are also:
- Single Gay Men who are SERIOUS about breaking the patterns of failed dating.
- Single Gay Men who are SERIOUS about learning how to approaching and talk with more men.
- Single Guys Men who want to tame their Monkey Mind. (The voices that convince us not to do what our hearts are telling us)
- Guys who want to learn how take a spiritual approach. (Spiritual, not religious)
- Single Gay Men who are READY to bust through some pretty thick walls.
- ENERGIZED and involved in life and other people.
- Optimistic, enthusiastic, willing to stretch/think outside the box
- Curious, open-minded, willing to consider experimenting with new attitudes.
This Sounds REALLY Life-Changing!
What Do We Cover in Four Weeks?
Week #1: The Bottom Line – 90 min (Be willing to stop and wait for the mud to settle)
We’ll spend the first thirty minutes getting to know each other and I’ll match you up with your ‘accountability buddy’. Then we’ll dive right into laser-focused coaching on what exactly it is that’s stopping you from meeting available guys, why you’re struggling to just be yourself, and why you think dating is hard. Also, you be assigned powerful homework assignments to work on alone and with your buddy.
Week #2: Being in ACTION – 90 min
Creating a Plan of Attract is the collection of all of the actions you are taking NOW, in your life. Like reading this page, taking this bootcamp, and working with a group of like-minded men. I will show you what kind of actions to take to get positive results in the dating world.
Week #3: Where are you settling? – 90 min
You’ve been allowing people to step over your boundaries long enough. Importantly, maybe you’ve been stepping over your own. You’ll get clear on what boundaries you need to set, what you will and will not accept anymore in your love life, and learn how to assert your boundaries in a peaceful way and stick to them. Each participant will create three powerful boundaries. This assignment you can work on with your accountability buddy and implement right away.
Week #4: Check into Values and Build Skills – 90 min
Effective communication is not a skill you’re born with. Learning how to communicate and doing it effectively is probably one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself. The fact is, everyone needs a strong set of life skills and value sets in order to keep grounded and focused in life. Maybe you need to reinforce the ones you have or develop newer ones; either way you will get crystal clear on what these are, how they are going to help you in the dating world and empower you to maintain a great attitude.
Ok – So, Here’s How the Bootcamp Works in Six Parts.
We Work via Tele-phone.
We meet by tele-phone once a week for four week (plus bonus week). You will be given a special number and access code to call into. This way anyone from anywhere can participate. I get participants anywhere from Canada to California to Washington DC.
Recording of Each Class
Each class will be recorded and sent to you as an mp3 audio download. You will be able to listen to the discussions and exercises as often as you need to. And if an emergency comes up, you wont have missed the class. The recordings are top notch quality PLUS we divide our recordings into tracks so you wont have to fuss through a 90 minute recording – they will be properly labeled for easy access on your iPod.
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The Workbook
You’ll receive a pdf file of this workbook that you will bring to each class. This workbook includes exercises, lessons and bonus articles. Also, there is a place where you can journal about your class experience. This workbook fortifies the class work and also – some people work better by listening, some by reading and some by doing both and besides it’s always helpful to have material to refer to between classes.
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The Buddy System
You’ll be paired up with a partner who you’ll work with during the course. There’s nothing like have that extra support between calls and you’ll really appreciate the value in having a supportive community that is both compassionate and caring and pretty much on the same page as you.
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A Private One-to-One with Greg Halpen
This is the most intimate work out of the entire course. The week after the 4th class, you and I will meet via tele-phone for a private individual session. This is an in-depth one-to-one session, recorded for your benefit. You will get the amazing opportunity to be laser-coached, ask any questions about the previous four weeks and get last minute support regarding your dating plan.
Bonus Week via Email: Touching base, Q&A
Guy’s, I so wont leave you hanging. It takes some guts to change the things that have not been working in your life, and to be sure you wont drop the ball and ditch the work, I want to touch base with you one more time. You will get the opportunity to ask me any burning questions, how to implement a certain strategy or share with the group how amazing your new dating plan is working for you.
Greg’s Signature $99
Dating INtegrity Bootcamp
This program brings back the heart of dating by teaching you how to walk within yourself.
The mission of this bootcamp is to make it extremely powerful AND affordable. Especially in these rocky economic times. Also, I want single gay men to have the opportunity to access my services without worrying about the financial part. That’s why I developed my signature Bootcamp for only $99. A 4 week program that offers much more for way less!
When you can truthfully and clearly answers these three questions: Who am I? What do I want in a boyfriend and How do I get there, you will be on your way to phenomenal dating success!
The price is just $99/in advance or two payments of $57.50. You save $16 when you pay in full. The slightly higher fee is to cover the increased administration costs involved in more frequent payments.
One easy payment of $99.00 ($16 Savings)
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Two easy payment of $57.50
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I know…
…there’s something about dating that get’s people all up in arms, but wouldn’t you rather be up in arms with other amazing single guys who want the same thing you do? A rockin’ love life?
Well, ask me any questions you may have in your heart and soul about this program. I want you to make a decision that is right for you. Fill out the easy application below and you’ll be walking with me on that road to dating success sooner than you think. I’m happy to speak with you as well.
Your friend,
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